I Don't Bite.

[Jeremiah Arkham - Black Mask]

Hey all!

There's something that's troubling me. There's been way too many complaining about me to Avalikia when they should be complaining to me. Please don't make her a go-between. I don't bite and even if I'm not appearing on the site I try to check my Proboard account everyday for messages and I'm always signed onto AIM.

Feel free to always poke me. If there's a problem, I'd be happy to get it resolved as quickly as possible.

Love you all!

-Jere

[Avalikia]

Yo!

I just wanted to add that this troubles me too. Because while I like to be 100% available to hear anything anyone has to say, whether it's a compliment, complaint, question, cookie, concern, or observation on your local weather, I do get way too many people telling me all of the complaints that they have about other people in spite of the fact that they've never breathed a word of their gripe to the person in question.

I do not like this. Not only if it's about Jere, but any other player.

While I understand that everyone occasionally needs to vent about someone who is being frustrating and I'm happy to be vented to, if you feel like you have a real complaint about another player then you should generally tell them so - how are they supposed to fix a problem if they don't know it exists? The only time you should skip that step and only come directly to me (or another admin) is if someone is doing something that may require official discipline or at least an official talking-to. If it isn't that serious, then you should take it up with the other player - though you can also vent to me about it if you want to.

The problem arises when you only vent to me about a matter that you clearly want to see changed but is too trivial for me to address it officially. Because aside from my ability to do official, Head Admin things, I do not have a magic wand to wave that will make it all better. The best I can do in those situations is to simply tell the other player of the complaint, which you could do yourself, so you should. In fact, it would probably be far more effective coming directly from you. In fact, I'm very happy to offer you any advice you could need about the best way to tell them.

All that being said... Be excellent to each other, and party on dudes!

-Ava

[Kory Anders - Starfire]

I second the party on! WOOT! Love you!

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Feb 5, 2014 10:27:29 GMT -5 Jeremiah Arkham - Black Mask said:

I don't bite

What if people like that sorta thing? *mischievious wink*.